Thursday, June 30, 2011

Lights, Camera, DRAMA!

THIS POST IS NOT MEANT TO OFFEND ANYONE! I'VE JUST NOTICED THAT IT'S A BIG ISSUE AT THE MOMENT!
    
    Do you know what I can't stand? People who love to create drama for themselves and for others. These are normally the ones who say "I hate drama it follows me everywhere!" wait . . .  stop . . . did you see that!? You HATE drama and yet it FOLLOWS you everywhere. Really? Maybe you should stop, think for a second. Why is it that I always have drama? Then ask "do I find it?" or "does it just find me?" If you think it's the second one, most likely you're wrong. It's the first. 


Now that we've found the root of the problem, the next step is correct it. If you want a drama-free life here's a few tips that you can try.


1. If you have a problem with someone address it. Don't wait for it to boil inside of you for years and years to come. And don't say "it's not worth the confrontation" it doesn't have to be a confrontation, just use your nice words. 


2. Don't lie. That's obvious enough! 


3. If you know someone is not good for you to associate with, then don't continue to associate with them. DUH! However keep in mind that you should not be the one to determine for the world if that person is good or not. Slandering someone's name is NEVER something to be proud of. 


4. Think twice before you do something major. You need to think of how it will affect others (same applies to what you say). 

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